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If you’ve ever felt silenced, burdened by shame, or stuck in the cycle of guilt, this episode will inspire you.

Join the Help Her Be Brave Podcast as we talk with Heather Lawless, author of We Do Talk About It, about breaking the silence on sex, shame, and purity culture. Discover healing, redemption, and freedom in Christ.

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In this powerful episode of the Help Her Be Brave Podcast, we tackle topics often swept under the rug in Christian communities: sex, shame, purity, and the culture surrounding them. Heather Lawless, founder and CEO of Reliance Ministries and author of We Do Talk About It: Breaking the Silence on Sex, Shame, and Redemption, joins us for a candid conversation that encourages healing and hope.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

  1. Why Christians often avoid conversations about sex and shame
  2. How toxic purity culture can impact relationships, parenting, and faith
  3. The transformative power of vulnerability and safe spaces
  4. Real-life stories of overcoming shame and experiencing God’s redemption

About Heather Lawless

Heather Lawless is a ministry leader, author, and advocate for women facing sexual trauma and unexpected pregnancies. Through Reliance Ministries, she helps women find freedom from shame and walk into the love and grace of Christ.

Why Listen to This Episode

If you’ve ever felt silenced, burdened by shame, or stuck in the cycle of guilt, this episode will inspire you to:

  1. Speak up about difficult topics
  2. Embrace brokenness as a path to healing
  3. Step into courage and freedom through Christ

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Embrace Grace, Inc. of 700 W Bedford Euless Rd, Suite G, Hurst, TX 76053, a non-profit charitable corporation organized under the Texas Business Organizations Code with exempt status under section 501(c)(3) of the Internal Revenue Code. The Federal Tax ID number (EIN) is 45-5202711. Email contact: info@embracegrace.com